BEYOND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

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Beyond Unconditional Love

When we talk about the word love, it drives us to the stage where we start feeling it, and rejuvenates our life to any point of time.

There is no any specific definition of love, but there are always types of love.

Mother love towads her child, the purest love of all.

“Remember the day when we were born, the moment when we see our parents first time, We find peace and love, and courage to go on, in whatever circumstances we are into, its because she will be always with us through out our life, She don’t have any expectation, she is a living presence”

Well, the mystery and the answer of all my question of all the love is hidden inside this mother child love.

There is a thing called conditional love, which we all have come across is quite familiar to us is marriage.

There are stages in unconditional love, First one is getting detached (Attached to everyone) i.e. to get the same amount of happiness after seeing an unknown being happy.

Let me clear you this, We all have got some relationship, right from the beginning of our life, we try everything to satisfy our beloved.

Why do you think like that? If we see someone known to us being unhappy, we try everything to make him/her happy, but when we see someone unhappy who is unknown to us we afraid of making him/her happy.Why? The reason is we are attached or in other word we are living inside a boundary called as attachment.

What is the result of this? If someone close to us dies we feel unhappy and insecure thus we blame everyone including God.

Thus we never become secure from this unhappiness. “ The root of all sort of Unhappiness is Attachment” Said by Great Spiritual Leader Swami Vivekananda.

The people who start following this principle of detachment needs unconditional love as a medium to fight and win over their human instinct.
There must be something beyond this because there is always a level of perfection.

Is there is something beyond unconditional love, I will like to draw your attention towards it,Its love so it has lot of emotions, feeling, happiness, desire, but one thing may be missing in unconditional love is nothing but devotion, try to analyze.

It is just as, if someone is a great devotee of Lord Shiva, he/she must has a wish in his/her life that he/she will talk to his/her God one day.He/she lives in hope and his/her devotion comes from condition that he/she will meet, but in reality he/she is never going to meet, this is what I want to tell here. The devotion comes from pretending to have some expectation, even after knowing that the consequence is pain.

It is as simple as this, if we start loving people pretending to be conditional with expecting nothing in return then this must have more love than unconditional love.

It is just as child as expectation of getting marks that makes him always motivated towards study.

Thus, the unconditional love may lags devotion as it has no condition. Beyond Unconditional love may be more painful than anything as it has no expectation but a pretending type condition is there to enhance love, So this love can be definitely achieved, if we start loving an unknown person as equal as our beloved, although it is painful but this pain will give us sweeter reason to love.

Spirituality is an ideal which will always support us towards this cause.

By Vishal Sinha

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